I learned so much about how I respond to anger, disrespect, and sadness—and one big thing I realized? I’ve been way too hard on myself. Whenever I felt sad or emotional, my mind would instantly translate it into failure, even when I hadn’t failed at all. It’s like I was convincing myself I wasn’t enough, when I was just feeling things deeply.
This year, I tapped back into my spirituality. I started meditating again, listening to my body instead of letting my mind spiral, and trusting my intuition more.
I also had to face how fear was holding me back. When I moved, so many amazing people were ready to welcome me into their lives, but I stayed in hermit mode, stuck in my own head. I focused on the wrong people—people who didn’t truly care about me—because it felt safer than being vulnerable with new connections. Letting go of those habits and opening myself up to the right people has been life-changing.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that I only want things in my life that feel easy—even when they get hard sometimes. There’s a difference between healthy challenges and things that constantly drain you. I finally let go of the people, habits, and situations that didn’t align with my peace, and now I feel so much lighter.
There was a time this year when I lost all motivation. The things that used to make me happy just didn’t anymore, and I felt stuck. I started noticing what I truly wanted for myself and what steps I needed to take to move forward.
If you’re feeling like this, here’s what I want you to know: it’s okay to let go. It’s okay to stop chasing people and things that don’t serve you, and it’s okay to feel your emotions without labeling them as failure. You’re allowed to start over, and to focus on what truly makes you happy.
Be patient with yourself. Take it one day at a time, trust your instincts, and don’t be afraid to let go of what’s weighing you down. Once I learned all of these things about myself, I was able to learn how to be optimistic and enjoy my beautiful life.
❄️ Rejection is redirection. Anything that you feel is ignoring or neglecting you, is only your protection. You will never be satisfied with something you had to chase or something that only hurt you. Experiencing real love is the only option you should choose. ❄️
i hope you have the best holiday and new year!
paige ❄️💘
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